PrincessDiana's Engagement RingThe BlueSapphire

Lady Diana Spencer experienced a fairy tale wedding something you only read about in books. The question is what really went wrong?

Sapphire: A hard transparent precious stone, clear, deep blue corundum. The Blue Sapphire is not a diamond but it is beautiful, a brilliant radiating powerful energy. This jewel comes in various other colors such as green, pink, red, yellow, and white.

Land of precious jewels and man made gods.

India: Trend setters of diamond and jewel folklore:

Caves where self proclaimed holy men went to be enlightened were illuminated with sparkling energy, radiating from diamonds and precious stones. With breath taking allure, these gems densely covered ceilings, floors, and walls. Ancient guru's believe these were obviously rooms of the gods.

1600 The East India Co. set up a big out-post for their western trade center. This trading post later became the city of Bombay, India, mecca of the then trade world.

Hinduism: A european term to explain the complex religions of India. They strongly believed in the power of precious stones. Often using dust from certain colored stones to heal patients of mental and physical illness.

What then is the blue jewel curse? Why do they consider the color blue in a stone unlucky?

Answer: 1. The Hindu god * YAMA the god of death and ruler of the underworld, is represented by a blue jewel diamond being the most powerful. 2. All energy from blue gemstones are considered toxic. YAMA control the minds of the dense, evil, unstable and the ungodly. 3. Blue stones control mental weakness by producing psychosamatic illness and confusion. 4. The lowest caste live with their fate and the blue jewel because of bad Karma.

Lady Diana Spencer: 1 July 1961 thru 31 August 1997. Parents: Father Viscount Althrop John ( Johnnie ) Spencer. 1975 when his father died he became 8th Earl Althrop. Mother Lady Frances Roche. youngest daughter 4th Baron Fermoy.

Earlier days:

Charles and Diana were no doubt at family socials the same time. Prince Charles was 12-years older than Diana he probably didn't notice her much.

Lady Sarah Spencer Diana's older sister dated Charles about 9-months. He realized that she might not be discreet enough to be a member of the Royal family.

1978 Charles and Sarah Spencer went on holiday with the Royal family for a ski-trip. The mini-vacation where great vibes were easy and fun. Naturally the press was watching the royal family. They knew to strike while the iron was hot. Sarah talked with reporters, and even consented to a magazine interview. She didn't think to ask the Royal family if they approved. If Prince Charles had her in mind for a prospective bride the interview was not flattering. In the interview she said," Prince Charles is congenial and thoughtful like a big brother ". When she no longer received calls from him, perhaps she realized her blunder.

Nov. 1978 The Queen mother invited Diana and her sisters to Charles's birthday party at Buckingham Palace. At the party Charles and Diana became especially friendly.

1979 Charles invited Diana on short notice to attend the opera and dinner after at the palace. Even though the date was that night Diana accepted without a sigh. She really did not have anything to wear to an opera. With help her roomates were able to put her together fairly well.

When Diana received an invitation to Balmoral, she wondered. Excited and almost speechless. " What can this mean ", she asked her roomates " ? She stayed with her sister Jane and her husband Sir Robert Fellows, the Queens pvt. assist. secretary. They lived in one of the cottages about a mile away on the Balmoral estate.

Diana appeared very innocent and blushed often. Charles paid his respect to her every evening. They dined at the castle, rode horseback and went on long walks.

The engagement Ring; Oval Blue Sapphire of 18 carats encircled by 14 brilliant diamonds. Estimated to cost around $ 75, 000.

The rings were brought to the castle by the queens man. Garrard jewelers designed a selection of rings to be chosen from. There are two stories about the selection of the ring. First version. 1. Rings were brought in for inspection the Queen inspected first, Charles approved the Queens choice of ring. Diana accepted the choice. Second version. 2. Diana was given a choice of rings she insisted on choosing a ring that was not of royal tradition. She chose Sapphire because it was her favorite stone. It was also a catalogue selection ( any with money could buy ). Charles and the queen knew her favorite stone was sapphire and asked for several to be available. A year or so later Diana said she would not have chosen such a ring. She would have chosen something more elegant and simple.

24 Feb. 1981 Buckingham Palace announced the engagement of Charles and Diana. It seemed she slipped into an abyss after watching television coverage of their engagement party. She did not approve her appearence on the tape. Her new blue ' Cojan ' suit from Harrods made her look frumpy and short. She was sure the television cameras had been focused to make her look short even though in hills she stood almost eye to eye with Charles.

Oliver Everett; Coached diana in many areas to help her fit into her role of Princess of Wales. He suggested reading about previous consorts who were special and other who indured infidelities as a way of life.

He suggested she learn a few Welsh words before visiting, as the Princess of Wales. In typical teenage style she resented being told what to do. As with some young and head strong individuals she learned the hard way.

9 March 1981: At the London Guildhall. The David & Elizabeth Emanual's, black ball gown Diana wore caused a few eyebrows to lift. Diana thought the gown was, " awesome ". Charles simply stated, " I thought black was for mourning ".

29 July 1981 Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer were married in St. Pauls Cathedral. Prince Charles apparently sincere about his wedding, every aspect had to approved by him. He planned the grandest wedding of all times. A spectacular wedding it was televised for the world to see.

Trouble at the Castle:

Less than one month into their marriage the sweet young thing 20 years of age, was not who she had appeared to be. She had her highs and very lows. Switching back and forth if she did not get her way. Another trait was evident. She was very touchy and extremely sensitive. This mood could be described as a persecution complex. Staff members thought she had mental issues. Charles gave into most whims considering her age and lack of life's experience. He believed her simply, " unsophisticated ".

Starting her own quick weight loss progam which allowed her to eat as much as she wanted. She did eat as much as she wanted and sometimes more than she wanted. The weight began to melt away. Kitchen staff members kept raw fruits and vegetables in plenty supply as she commanded or demanded. Her solution to weight loss was to vomit after eating.

Loosing 5-inches of her waist in less than 2-months a slim model's type Diana emerged. It was discovered soon enough the princess was vomiting after each feeding all the time.

What was the problem? Can energy from the blue sapphire disturb the mind like the blue diamond? Diana as pretty as she was just couldn't get with the program. She seemed unhappy all the time. Was being in the Castle like being in prison to her? She had not made many friends within the royal cortege. Surely if she wanted to visit her old roomates things were different. Obviously she could not do this to often; it would look as if she was not happy being a Princess.

Diana became pregnant right away and it was good for her. She stopped benge purging and started healthy habbits for the sake of her son. " She knew she was going to have a son who one day would be king ", she said. Relief came around the castle when news of her pregnancy was official. This explained the reason for all the vomiting. There were no more signs of Bilemia and Diana appeared happy.

21 July 1982 Prince William was born perfectly beautiful and healthy with his family jewels intact. Charles and Diana were typical proud parents. Diana breast fed William because she believed breast fed babies were healthier.

As soon as Diana decided to stop breast feeding. Once again the evil twin side of her personality returned. Temper tantrums and mood swings no one was shocked this time her behavior was familiar and not surprising.

15 Sept. 1984 Prince Harry was born. She was determined to keep this baby away from Charles and the nanny as much as possible. As she said, " I will not let Charles or that nanny steal baby Harry's love from me ".

Diana kept herself busy with coiffure, calisthenics, couturiere, dance exercise ( with London ballet class ), decorating, gormadizer, gym, shopping, good mother and a wife. Sarah ( Fergie ) Dutchess of York, wrote in her book, " My Story ". There was plenty of royal work. Divided into 3-main classification. 1. Official Engagement. 2. Charities. 3. High Ceremonial. Plus this included a lot of traveling. It does not seem as if Diana had much time to get bored.

Some of her dealings involved her detective Barry Mannakee. At times it did not seem she could understand that she was stepping over the line. Royal protocol requires a code of conduct between the Royal family and their employees.

1986 Charles returned home before expected from one of his official engagements. What conversation took place between Diana and her Detective Barry mannakee is suspect. Charles found it necessary to have Barry removed from royal service and demoted back to regular police work.

Charles continued shared residence for the sake of the children and the monarchy. He had purchased another private residence of his own. He never chose to forgive. unchanging he decided he preferred respect over claims of love.

199 At one time Diana thought she would be moving away from Kensington Palace and back to Althrop. After their father died her brother became 9th Earl Althrop. He offered the garden house to Diana. Four bedrooms completely private away from all buildings surrounded by a garden with a servants quarter. This would be a safe place, with servants quarters she could enjoy complete privacy.

After a few weeks her brother contacted her and said, " he was concerned about her constant need for police protection, the constant media intrusion he must withdraw his offer ". She said she understood even though it was impossible to understand.

Was this really bad luck or just life?

28 Aug. 1996 Prince Charles and Diana signed their final divorce papers. They were married 15 years 11 of these years they were separated.

Debbie Frank astrologer, with whom Diana confided and trusted her advice became a close confidant. Through her Diana dabbled and learned self hypnosis, new age thoughts, how to read the future. All artless interest in these subjects progressed making Diana feel cofident and strong able to feel infallible. A dangerous thought.

Did self hypnosis cause Diana to lose sight of reality? Was she often bewildered not able to judge who her true friends were?

Self Hypnosis: A natural way to overcome and defeat problems by denying their exhistence. Technique: This can be learned from a therapist. The basics are. After completely relaxing a tape recording or self repitious suggestions are instilled to the thought process. In time problems are pushed to the back of the mind and take on very little importance.

It is most important to return oneself back to a clear alert mind when finished. It is paramount to operate in this real world, always alert and aware. Attempting to manage while in a trance is dangerous.

Blue Gemstone: Can effects of blue gemstone rays be reversed?

The Sanskrit Text an authority on healing powers of gemstones has this to say. Gemstones to avoid. Colors: Black, blue, brown. Conditions: course, cracked, cylindrical, flat, marked with lines, rent in places, spotted and others. Healing stones should be perfect. According to this authoritative text the aforementioned stones need only to be avoided.

1997 It is believed that Diana really loved prince Charles, but as the Queen said in the beginning," her character was not strong enough". Diana up to that time had little experience. A teenager when her and Charles started dating. Employed teacher assist. working with 5-year old children allowed little time for more worldly understanding. Even if she had her an apartment alone she might have learned how to think for herself. She had roomates and probably made few decisions on her own.

Diana continued her competitive spirit involving herself with special intrest charities. Globe trotting. She cautioned her promoters to be selective because she was only one person.

Her advisors were moving her to a lofty position such as world ambassador or alike. Diana a great champion of mother Theresa could follow her ideals. Numerous offers filled their offices and crowded several of their mail centers. Book deals, commercials and movies, Kevin wanted her for, " Body Guard 11". What offer could ever replace the, " The Princess of Wales " ?

After Reading numerous books about the Princess, it seems she became restless and lonely. Divorced about a year and wanting someone she could love and be loved by, perhaps even mourning lost younger years.

Actually she was caught off guard one day while she was visiting a friend at Royal Brompton Hospital. She Met Dr. Hasnat Khan a surgeon. He originated from Pakistan where his family lives (1948 Pakistan became a commonwealth of Britain ). There were sparks between them they began to secretly date. Diana always wore a black wig when the couple went out and he drove his plain car. He even took her to Pakistan to visit his family.

Later Dr. Hasnat told Diana his mother was concerned about her high profile status and felt he would suffer in the end if they were to marry. Diana was not comfortable with rejection no matter what the reason was. After all she had been rejected by Prince Charles and that was enough for her.

She started dating a prominant business man who was also from Pakistan. His name was Gulu Lavani. They went to the best night spots Diana went as herself. The news reported this as her first date since divorced. Gulu invited Diana to spend time with him at his seasonal home in Thailand, she refused.

July 1977 Prince Charles hosted Camilla's 50th birthday party at Highgrove. Diana had no desire to be anywhere near. It was more than jealousy she felt defeat, unloved, used and discarded.

Diana wanted to do something daring and exciting a vacation with her sons. But she also wanted to be in a cacoon of protection and luxury. That is when she decided to except an open invitation from Mohamed Al-Fayed the owner of Harrods dept store. Her family members were on friendly terms with him.

July, 1977 On the 195 ft. yacht Jonikal, Mohahamed Al-Fayed, his wife Heini, their 4-children, Princess Diana her sons William and Harry all yachted to St. Trope.

A few days later Mohamed Al-Fayed son Dodi Fayed ( he dropped Al from his name) joined the yachting group at St. Trope. Dodi had a beautiful fiance' but the idea of possibly getting with Diana obviously fed his greedy heart.

21 July Diana returned to London with her sons safely without incident.

10 August Diana flew by way of the Al-Fayed jet to Bosnia. In her crusade as world ambassador she wanted to take a stand against the killing land mines there .

21 August This is where the trouble really began. In such a short space of time from the first Al-Fayed family cruise there was another cruise. Diana and Dodi cruised the mediterranean on the Jonikal together with a servants crew.

30 August The two, Diana and Dodi flew the family jet to the Fayed Ritz Hotel in Paris, France.

The news media were waiting at the Ritz Hotel to cover the story of Diana and Dodi. The army of Paparazzi's were out. It is unclear why Dodi did not expect all the media attention.

Diana by now was not a novice, she knew what to expect. When she and her husband Prince Charles traveled, millions of people followed from town to town to see them. Reports of paparazzi's getting in fist fights and breaking each others cameras to get a good shot at the them was a sureal.

There was no way they could out drive these people only to be follow where ever they went. What was the point to race up and down the street being chased by cars, motorcycles, and pedestrians?

This is what is known as not thinking clearly. Diana being in the company with Dodi whose family owns the best department store, hotels, helicopters and a jets should have said, " get a helicopter please or I'm not leaving ". Actually she could hire a helicopter herself any time she felt the need. Prince Charles almost went broke coughing up the lump sum of 17 million cash dollars he paid Diana. Plus she lives free in Kesington Palace.

After doing the math many people don't believe that Diana recieved enough money from Prince Charles and the Royals in the way of a divorce settlement. Prince Charles and Princess Diana were married a little over 15 years. It appears she earned a little over a million dollars a year. That is hardly any money for the super star that she was. Most people know she generated a good deal of revenue and publicity for the royal family. Charles and Diana sons, it is important to emphasize what hansome stately young men William and Harry are.

31 August When the couple decided to leave the Ritz Hotel, Dodi made a decision to out-smart the paparazzi. They left from the rear of the hotel in a black S-280 Mercedes. There was a change in driver who was not scheduled to work that night. It was reported by some that he was drunk others said he had not been drinking that night. Maybe he had been druged. Traveling and speeding from 90 to a 100 miles an hour he swooped into the Alma tunnel with flash bulbs from camera's flashing. A white Fiat Uno side swiped the Mercedes it slid into a road divider bouncing of the walls of the tunnel.

A horrible accident. Not believeable but it happened, completely out of control. Dodi, the driver, died at the scene. Diana was pinned down in the car it took 2-hours to pull her out, she died at the hospital. The only survivor was Trever Reese Jones the body guard.

Notes * Yama rarely pictured. Heritage world civilization, Craig, Graham, Kagan, Ozment, Turner.

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